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  • They Put Me In The Mix – Jam Slow

    My MHW brothers have been putting up mix tapes. I’m not really a big mix tape guy, except when it comes to slow jams. I think I’ve always connected better with slow jams. I’ve noticed that artists use slower songs to communicate real issues or possible heartbreak or happiness much better than in faster songs. I guess the reason to have faster songs is much different and when you’re making the crowd dance, they probably don’t care what you have to say. But with slower songs, it’s different. Artists emote biographically through their music as it is, and I think they do so more during slower songs.

    When I was about 20 years old, I started making mix tapes of slow songs. I especially enjoyed the love songs. Call me soft or whatever. But just singing about love is inspiring. The first tape I created was called Jam Slow. Yep, that’s the title on the old cassette tape. I didn’t want to call it Slow Jams, so I went the other way.

    I’ve always had an idea on what I wanted to do with these tapes. I never just wanted to throw a bunch of songs on a tape and go with it. I looked at how artists told stories with their songs. They fit into a few buckets. There are the courting type songs, the early love songs, the “we have a future together”songs, the marriage songs, and the most famous of them all, the break up songs. I put them in order, not by artist necessarily, but by what the content was in each song. The first songs would be the courting songs, and then next would be the early love kind of songs that would then segue into real relationship songs. After that, the break-up songs would come in, and then the “get back” songs, and usually at the end, I saved either the marriage songs or the songs about starting a family. I did this with all the impending tapes as well. Now before you start to notice how weird I am, I’ll get right to the music.

    Look At Those Outfits

    Jam Slow (circa 1996/97)

    1. Falling – Montell Jordan
    2. Knocks Me Off My Feet – Tevin Campbell
    3. For Your Love – Stevie Wonder
    4. Down Low (Nobody Has To Know) – R. Kelly
    5. Nobody – Keith Sweat featuring Athena Cage
    6. Stay Gold – Stevie Wonder
    7. I’m Still In Love With You – New Edition
    8. When Can I See You Smile Again – Bell Biv Devoe
    9. Can You Stand The Rain – New Edition
    10. Never Can Say Goodbye – Jackson 5
    11. How Could You – K-Ci and JoJo
    12. If You Think You’re Lonely Now – K-Ci Hailey
    13. Lately (live version) – Jodeci
    14. Everytime I Close My Eyes – Babyface
    15. The Lady In My Life – Michael Jackson
    16. Love U For Life – Jodeci
    17. The Day – Babyface

    Look At Bob Wear The Bandana Under The Hat

    You can definitely see what kind of music I was listening to at that time. Lots of Jodeci, Steveland, NE, and MJ. I can remember being done with a relationship right around this time (and possibly sooner), but I don’t remember that being a large factor in the songs that I chose to be on the tape, like would happen during other times in my life. Some thoughts on it.

    • Falling by Montell Jordan is really the only song I’ve been able to get into by him. Of course, everybody has heard This Is How We Do It, but Falling is the only place where I’ve been able to truly get into his voice.
    • There are two Stevie Wonder songs on this list but also two Stevie Wonder covers by other artists – Lately and Knocks Me Off My Feet.
    • Stay Gold isn’t really a relationship love song per say, but it’s sort of a universal love song that I’ve always thought was magical.
    • New Edition, BBD, New Edition – I’ve always dug Ricky Bell’s voice.
    • Never Can Say Goodbye is definitely the oldest song on the list, but somehow it sounds just as fresh (at least in 1996) as the others.
    • I probably OD’d a bit on Jodeci at the time, but it was what I was listening to.
    • The Day is the song that probably describes the feeling of immediate fatherhood better than anything else I’ve ever heard.

    Oh such tears of joy, I’ve never known
    I can’t remember
    It’s like a song, I’ve never heard
    I’ve never sung, but know the words

    I’ll be back soon with the next version of Jam Slow. I dropped the Jam and shortened it to J Slow.

  • Weighing In On R. Kelly: The Verdict & His Legacy


    After six years and a number of false starts, the R. Kelly child pornography verdict has arrived, and to the surprise of many, the R&B singer was acquitted of all charges. An eternity of delays plus the refusal of the alleged victim to testify against Kelly ultimately proved to be the prosecution’s undoing, and the career of the man who is arguably the most successful male R&B vocalist of the past fifteen years can go on as planned, with a new album scheduled for release before the end of 2008.

    The question most people interested in this case are probably asking is “how the hell did he get off”? The key point is definitely the lack of testimony from the alleged victim. What might have been a slam dunk at the outset of the case when the girl was still a teenager isn’t the same now that the girl is an adult with only peripheral resemblance to the girl in the video. Jurors cited that as the #1 reason they acquitted Kelly. However, you (as a non-juror, apparently the jurors did not have access to this information) can’t help but take into account the several similar cases that were settled out of court, the character assaults in the press and in court from a slew of people ranging from Kelly’s own brother Carey (who told a radio station that Kelly offered him money and a recording deal to take the rap) to Kelly’s former protege Sparkle (who is the aunt of the alleged victim). You also have to consider the fact that Kelly’s wife has filed for separation, alleging abuse, and the fact that Kelly’s most trusted advisers, Chicago record impresario George Daniels and his wife Regina, distanced themselves from Kelly after finding out that he was sleeping with their (legal age) daughter. Ah, yes, and then there’s the little matter of the marriage to 15-year old Aaliyah back in 1994.

    Whatever led to Kelly’s acquittal, the specifics of which are discussed in detail here, the fact of the matter is that the case, which has hung over his head for years, is now over, and Kelly can resume his life as an “innocent” man. This probably means no more pleas for understanding a la the single “Heaven I Need a Hug” or pseudo-gospel albums like “U Saved Me”. Kelly can go right back to being as hedonistic and crass as he was before, while not having to worry about keeping a remorseful attitude in his back pocket. I’m sure many of the singers and rappers who distanced themselves from him in light of his troubles will now come running back, and I’m absolutely positive that the new album will feature a renewed marketing push, touting Kelly’s triumph over the legal system.

    In light of all this, has Kelly’s legacy taken a hit? Well, I guess that depends on what you consider Kelly’s legacy to be. Of course, he’s been successful and that success has continued unabated even with the allegations. His last album, “Double Up” debuted at #1 and went Platinum, and his “Trapped in the Closet” video series has also been successful. However, his artistry has never been equal to his success. While plenty of poor misguided souls compare Kelly to artists like Marvin Gaye, I don’t think Marvin, as crass as he was capable of being, would have ever recorded songs like last year’s “Sex Planet”, which is one of those songs whose awfulness alone gives it replay value. I also find it hard to believe that Kelly could ever come up with music as intelligent or as sensitive as Marvin’s classic work, particularly when you consider that Kelly’s work has actually regressed over the years. Early albums like 1995’s self-titled work (still by leaps and bounds his best album) have given way to half-rapped farces like “Snake” and “I’m a Flirt”, songs that Marvin could have potentially written and sung in his sleep.

    To hold Kelly up as a major talent in contemporary R&B is a major disservice to the significantly more talented songwriters, producers and vocalists out there. I’m definitely not saying Kelly’s not talented in his own right, but when put against lesser-known artists like Raphael Saadiq, Rahsaan Patterson, Tevin Campbell, D’Angelo, Maxwell, Robin Thicke (I could go on here), what has Kelly done that puts him so far ahead on the talent scale? I could even throw Usher into the mix-although Usher has yet to demonstrate the writing and producing acumen that Kelly owns, they’re about equal on the vocal scale and Usher’s records are, quite frankly, better written and produced, so we can at least give him credit for being able to outsource. What was the last truly profound or uplifting lyric you heard Kelly utter? When was the last time he deviated from that same tired 4/4 beat he’s used on almost every song he’s written, produced or performed for fifteen years now? How can the music community at large ignore the fact that Kelly has more or less repeated himself musically for years on end? I guess sales *do* count for something, even among critics who will swear the opposite.

    Several friends and I have had discussions about appreciating Kelly’s music in light of his transgressions, and I’ve gotta say, it’s not easy. It would probably be easier if the music was good, but even still, the guy has an undeniably crass, sleazy vibe that permeates everything he does. I almost feel like a hypocrite for slamming Kelly when I still proclaim myself to be one of the biggest Michael Jackson fans around. That said, though, a) there is no videotape of Jackson pissing on a teenage boy, b) there’s no license that proved that he married a teenager (and yes, I know you can’t marry little boys), c) Jackson’s music isn’t sexually explicit to the point that you automatically picture him doing unmentionables to a youngster as he sings, and d) Jackson’s talent (and to a lesser degree, his nightmare of a childhood) makes it a bit easier to…ignore? Excuse? I’m not sure what the right word is here. Same goes for Marvin, whose 1973 opus “Let’s Get it On” was inspired by the sight of then-17-year old Janis Hunter (who quickly became Gaye’s second wife). Hell, Jerry Lee Lewis wed his teenage cousin and Elvis courted Priscilla Beaulieu when she was underage. We can’t forget about Jimmy Page or Bill Wyman, either. So I guess the real question isn’t whether Kelly’s legacy can be preserved in light of the allegations and subsequent acquittal, but whether his music is good enough for that legacy to warrant being preserved, allegations or no allegations. In my opinion, the answer is unequivocally “no”.

  • More On The R. Kelly Trial

    MTV.com is keeping me updated on the R. Kelly trial. Anyone remember Sparkle? She is most remembered for a song with R. Kelly called Be Careful and according to her Wikipedia page did the most of the background vocals for Aaliyah’s Age Ain’t Nothing But A Number.

    Sparkle testified that the person in the tape with R. Kelly is her niece and as a result of the tape, her family isn’t as tight as it once was.

    According to the MTV article, Kelly’s defense lawyer Ed Genson was trying to paint Sparkle as a former employee of Kelly’s who was bitter and wanted to get him back for firing her. She claimed she left so she could work with other producers and thought she was still cool with Kelly.

    She also said that she regretted bringing her niece around Kelly and at the time, didn’t notice anything inappropriate between them.